Recovery is messy. it’s not a straight line. You don’t wake up one day to sunshine and roses. It’s a lot of therapy, tears, backtracking, emotions and willpower. but it’s worth it. I promise, it’s worth it. Don’t give up.
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dissociating can be aggravating as fuck.
some days i have so many gaps in my memory that the majority of the day is a blur.
trying to hold on is exhausting.
it also sucks that the people i love the most think i’m ignoring them or “spacing out” bc in reality.. i can’t help it. and i’m trying. so hard.
sometimes i just float away.
it’s infuriating.
Friendly reminder
“In a healthy relationship, your partner hears you out if you’re upset, and their goal is to avoid upsetting you in the future, not to debate whether you should have been upset in the first place.”
i 👏🏻 want 👏🏻 to 👏🏻 sit 👏🏻 at 👏🏻 your 👏🏻 feet 👏🏻 and 👏🏻 hug 👏🏻 your 👏🏻 leg 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Real talk? Dom/mes talking to me with that fake pity and calling me a “poor baby” get me mega worked up
the question is..
am i blurry now?
☽ Welcome Home Spell
A potpourri spell to welcome not only guests but good intent and well wishes into your home.
Ingredients:
- Large pot
- Water
- Cinnamon sticks
- Orange peels
- Cloves
- 2-4 bay leaves
To Begin:
- Fill the large pot with water and place it on the stove. Set it to medium heat and begin preparing your other ingredients.
- Add the orange peels, cloves, bay leaves and cinnamon. Stir the mixture clockwise and chant the following:
- I welcome you to my home; please feel comfortable
- Cover the pot and let it come to a boil; keep an eye on it so it does not boil over. Once boiling, you may remove the lid and let it continue to boil until the house is filled with its calming scent and positive energies.
For beginner witches ✨
Learn the phases of the moon and what each phase contributes for you. Also, search up “tonight’s moon phase” and it’ll tell you what moon is there that night and tell you when to expect other phases!
PHASE CORRESPONDENCES
•full moon: love magick, charging, healing, banishing, cleansing, clarity
•Waxing gibbous: motivation, attraction, success, good health
•Dark/new moon: deconstructive magick, curses, banishing, soul searching, divination
•waning crescent: balance, success, attaining wisdom, atonement, illness
•last quarter: breaking bad habits, relinquishing, breaking curses, banishing
•waning gibbous: relinquishing, undoing bindings, cleansing, undoing curses
•Waxing crescent: constructive magick, attraction, wealth/success, luck & friendship
Use this for magick and making moon water. To make moon water you simply put some water under the moon, it’s okay if it’s cloudy, and you only need to put it out for an hour or more. Store it in a dark space.
Sun water: for ego, dignity, power, pride, self confidence and leader ship
Just leave water under the sun and store in a light/open area.
SIGILS : https://wxtches-energies.tumblr.com/post/161188398036/the-sigil-wheel-is-a-really-good-method-decide
Candles! : buy them from the dollar store , it’s much cheaper there. I have a few witchy shops in my city as well and candles can be 60 cents each! Here’s a post for candle colour correspondences:
https://wxtches-energies.tumblr.com/post/162447536196/candle-color-correspondences
What type of witch are you? : Here’s a master post and it’s HUGE on types of witches with a detailed description:
No material spells: Here’s a few one word spells to get you started! :
https://wxtches-energies.tumblr.com/post/162295744726/one-word-spells
Secret witches master post:
https://wxtches-energies.tumblr.com/post/162517634026/master-post-for-secret-witches
Importance of salt in witchcraft:
https://wxtches-energies.tumblr.com/post/162295813361/the-importance-of-salt-in-witchcraft
How to cast a circle (many methods) :
https://wxtches-energies.tumblr.com/post/162283941001/a-pagan-path-now-that-ive-begun-working-more